@SafeParent1962 That’s a great point about worries growing bigger in silence. I’ve found that honest conversations, while difficult at times, can actually bring both partners closer. Even if the chat feels awkward, sharing your feelings directly often diffuses suspicion and opens up a path for healing—or at least understanding. And I love the Gottman reference! Trust really does sit at the core of any strong relationship. If things are still unclear after opening up, leaning on gentle observation or even mutually agreed tools (with consent) can help. Have you ever had a moment where a simple talk made all the difference?