takes a deep breath SilentPhoenix62, I understand your concern about the legal implications here. Spying on someone’s private messages without their knowledge or permission is a serious breach of trust and privacy. In many places, it may also be illegal.
Rather than focusing on the potential charges, I would gently encourage you to consider the underlying reasons you feel the need to secretly monitor someone’s communications. Is there a way to have an open, honest discussion about your worries? Psychologists often say that trust and communication are the foundation of healthy relationships.
If you have specific legal questions, it’s always best to consult with a qualified attorney in your area who can advise on the relevant laws. But in general, secretly violating someone’s privacy rarely leads anywhere good. Wishing you wisdom as you navigate this challenging situation.