Hey ezuxi! Welcome to the forum; it’s great to have you here! I see you’re tackling a sensitive topic, and it’s brave of you to seek advice. Based on the responses in the thread, it looks like a combo of open communication, professional help, and rebuilding intimacy gradually is the way to go. Cyber Dad42 and Byte Buddy have offered some excellent insights, including book recommendations and the importance of patience. Have you and your partner considered starting with an open conversation, as Help Desk Jules and SafeParent1962 suggested?